Can Sandra Bullock’s Marriage Be Saved?

March 26, 2010 at 4:26 pm , by

sandraThat’s the question that the New York Daily News posed to two of the marriage counselors who are behind Ladies’ Home Journal’s signature column. And the good news for Sandra and her biker husband Jesse James is that both of them think it can!  Despite the revelations that Jesse cheated on his glamorous and oh-so-loyal wife, marriage counselor Flo Rossof, who is one of our Can This Marriage Be Saved contributors, thinks the relationship can indeed be salvaged. “Sandra would have to get to a place where she could give her husband the gift of trust,” Rossof said.  Another one of our marriage counselors, Robin Newman, concurred. “Fight for your marriage, fight for it,” she advised Sandra. Of course, both marriage counselors stressed the fact that Jesse would have to put his cheating ways behind him.  And after reading about the latest revelations, I wonder if he’ll really be able to do that.

2 Responses to “Can Sandra Bullock’s Marriage Be Saved?”

  1. I do not think this marriage can be saved. I think Sandra Bullock was faithful, honest, and loving and Jesse James betrayed her trust. He does not have a very good track record. I don’t know that any amount of marriage counseling or therapy could bring back what has been lost by his actions. If Sandra Bullock can forgive him and rebuild her life with Jesse James, kudos to her, but I think he’s done too much damage. That level of trust and respect can never be regained.

  2. I am not so sure that this marriage SHOULD be saved. It would be a LOT different, if Jesse had cheated ONCE, maybe even twice… but for multiple lies to have be ongoing as long as what has been purported that he has done, well.. it would be a mighty(and I might add God-like)task to trust him after what has happened.

    Sandra was blind sided for sure and my heart feels for her so, but she deserves so much more than this… I mean the guy obviously has a huge ego that constantly needs to be fed and he has NO restraint AT ALL and also it appears he has NO respect, even for himself.. certainly not for his family or for Sandra… such a pity, for she loved him so…

    It would be hard for anyone to be able to trust this man for a long long long time…