Tenley Molzahn Talks Episode 6 of The Bachelor

February 10, 2011 at 10:35 am , by

Sometimes I think we do a little dance throughout life, with a few steps forward and a few steps back, but by doing this we can create our own dead ends. This week the beautiful ladies of The Bachelor have found themselves doing just that—after weeks of breaking down walls they’re putting them back up, although one confident and very “in-love” lady seems to be bulldozing through!

The first couple of weeks of my experience on The Bachelor were all about becoming vulnerable with my Bachelor and getting comfortable in my own skin in a very unique environment, and for the first couple of weeks it seemed like I was making progress along with the other women as we got familiar with our surroundings, each other and our Bachelor. But right around week five everything crumbled. I remember two of the girls on my season really started to gang up on one another. They were so worried about each other being there that they got competitive and almost forgot that there was still an important connection to be made with the Bachelor! Many of us even started to compare ourselves to specific girls that were still around thinking, “If she’s here, why am I here, we’re nothing alike…”

It’s so easy to sabotage a possible relationship by putting up walls or making comparisons. The most important thing is to focus on yourself and be confident in who you are and what you bring to the table in a relationship. Chantal O. seems to have found the confidence she needs and has already given her heart to Brad by declaring her love for him. I’ve never seen someone on The Bachelor say that so early on, so I’m excited to see if this builds an emotional tie between her and Brad more quickly than usual. Could she really be “the one”?! We still have several girls to say goodbye to before we see which woman is the last one standing.

17 Responses to “Tenley Molzahn Talks Episode 6 of The Bachelor

  1. This girl is annoying. What possible “expertise” does she bring to anything?

  2. Are we serious? This reality television people are so full of themselves. Do you have anything better to do? Or are you the love guru?? How ridiculous anything to look for fame.

  3. Fame seeking or not – she obviously has your attention. Does it really make you guys feel better about yourself to judge someone you don’t actually know?

  4. Seriously this girl is so annoying. This show is sooo fake and she is milking it for all the suckers out there for her need of wanting more fame and attention.

  5. How long is she going to go on and on talking about a 6 week dating show she was on over a year ago?? Seriously that is not a relationship to still be talking about. Move on Tenley!

  6. I love reading what Tenley has to say. It’s relevant as it’s her perspective on a show that is currently running- there are few that have experienced it and can given an insider’s perspective which I for one look forward to each week. Thanks for your insights and for continuing to stay positive regardless of circumstances.

  7. I also love reading what Tenley has to say. She was on the Bachelor, therefore she has been there and knows what she is talking about. If you don’t care about the show then why did you read this in the first place?! Also, if you know anything about Tenley, you know that she is one of the sweetest girls to ever be on the show AND she HAS moved on seeing that her and Kiptyn are an item…

    Ten – I think your article is awesome. After seeing the trailer for next weeks show I’m not sure Chantal O is going to last as she completely breaks down and wants him to send her home if he can’t picture her in the final three. I know this may be due to her being so in love with him and wanting him to feel the same way about her, but I also know that he wanted to see more of the confident, fun loving girl and not so much of the drama she brings to the show….so I’m kind of 50/50 with her making it to the final three. I personally LOVE Emily, Shawntel, and even though we don’t know much about Britt yet – I really like her too.

  8. I love Tenley and all her posts! I think she deserves all the fame and attention she is getting because she is a wonderful person. Also, I found this article very insightful. She should know, she was on the bachelor herself and is obviously still a fan of the show. You don’t have to read her articles if you don’t want to, go be jerks to someone who deserves it if you must.

  9. I love Tinley’s blog as well as the other Bachelorette and Bachelor alumni. They have an inside view and I like that. I can’t understand why some people have to be so mean. No one asked you to read this. Evidently you aren’t a bachelor fan. Guess what, I am not a fan of many of the shows that other people like but I don’t watch them or comment on them. To each his own. Please be more considerate of others and please don’t judge people you do not know. Our society has taken such an ugly turn. That saddens me.

  10. I really appreciate hearing Tenleys point of view. She is a great gal and I often wonder how things really are on the show. So, THANK YOU Tenley for sharing your views. You have been there and can help us to see what really goes on.

  11. To the ones who say be more considerate of others. Tenley dug her own grave by going on a show for “love”. If that doesn’t tell you how pathetic one person can be. Second of all, Tenley has made her own name for herself. She made a complete ass of herself on Bachelor Pad, has tried to be in the media for everything, sold her story to tabloids, and constantly tries to have an opinion on everything. How about you get a life? Until then she has every right to be public scrutinization. Just like Snooki does, Kim Kardashian, and so on. The sad part is those girls are more real then Tenley

  12. Tenley….I love reading your ‘blogs’ so please keep them coming.

  13. Tenley is either delusional and thinks the bachelor is about true love or fake and just acting stupid for the “fame”……this show has the worst record of couples making it and it’s set up situations. Look at bachelor brad he texted his ex it was about the money and promoting his business and himself.

    This show is not about a true meaningful relationship. These reality people are so egotistical!!!!

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