Tenley Molzahn Talks Episode 10 of The Bachelor

March 8, 2011 at 12:22 pm , by

During my season of The Bachelor I didn’t get to participate in the “Women Tell All” episode because I was one of the last two girls, so I didn’t get to have the reunion that all of the other girls had with each other. Watching this episode brought back different memories for me, and I also came to a special realization.

Women can really stir up some drama and sadly, it can be entertaining to watch. I cringed as the women fought back and forth, but especially when they singled each other out. It strangely took me back to a moment when I felt like I was in the hot seat at the Bachelor Pad finale. It never feels good to have someone pointing their finger at you or saying mean things to you, no matter what the truth is. I am a very sensitive person, and unfortunately I’ve been known to “emote” very easily. During the filming of the Bachelor Pad finale I was so blessed to have my boyfriend Kiptyn’s hand to hold.

Watching this episode brought that moment in the “hot seat” back to me, but I also realized how I had a new strength and confidence about myself as those hurtful words came at me. I hadn’t thought about that moment until now, and now I know that the hand I was holding enriched my strength, and for that I am so grateful. When you look at your relationships with the ones you love—a significant other, friends, family members—allow them to enrich you, and give them that gift as well.

10 Responses to “Tenley Molzahn Talks Episode 10 of The Bachelor”

  1. Grow up and be a woman Tenley. You speak and act like you’re 17. Seriously, grow up. You think Kiptyn is going to marry you? Do you really?

    Newsflash: He is not. No matter what you think, how much you cling. Crazy how he never refers to you as his gf.

    Get a job. Then get a real life.

  2. “Grow Up Tenley” I think that you are the one that needs to grow up. Tenley was asked to write about her experience on that bachelor and that is all she is doing. No one is making you read her blog. So if it bothers you that much then just do not read it. Also, you must have no life if you wasting your time reading and writing about something you do not like. You also do not have a right to say that Tenley and Kiptyn will not get married. You have no idea what their relationship is like. As a matter of fact you have no idea what either of them are like, so you have absolutely no right to be saying any of these things.

  3. Tenley comes across as a girl that feels the need to “mark” her man as evidenced on her social media and public interviews. As a proclaimed christian, I wonder what her stance is on dating a non christian and on pre-marital sex.

  4. I for one LOVE hearing about Tenley’s experiences during her Bachelor run. We don’t know how it feels to be one of those contestants, and it is so much fun to hear her spin on things. She seems like one of the most genuine people, and I wish her and Kiptyn all of the best <3

  5. Bachelor Fan…..Tenley said on Jake’s season she would never date a non christian,but she is now by dating Kiptyn.Also said she doesn’t have sex with a man until marriage. They’ve been together for 8 months now. With all the publicity she has been giving to the things they do when together. It leads one to believe the no sex before marriage doesn’t apply anymore,with Kiptyn.If Tenley is a christian. Why does she NOT go to church regularly on Sunday’s anymore since meeting and dating Kiptyn started. I go to the OC church she goes to. She hasn’t been here in MONTHS about 5 to be exact.Just saying.

  6. I can’t stand by and watch, I personally know Tenley and she is a hard worker. But most importantly she loves God and she has actually switched churches, and even visits different churches when out of town. Who are you to judge? That is not an example of a Christian that I want to be associated. Why when I come on here there is always someone slamming her walk with Christ. That is not for anyone to judge. Also, I know Kiptyn and he is very quiet about his beliefs by personal choice- probably so he won’t be picked apart like she is. If you don’t like Tenley or what she is doing, don’t waste your time on her, take care of yourself. Thank you.

  7. Wow! Just read all of this–back here on the east coast we see bumper stickers that say “MEAN PEOPLE SUCK!!” Ouch.

    Enjoyed reading the insider point of view- I’d like to know what it’s like when you’re the last woman sent home.
    Thanks, Tenley

  8. Wow–it’s really disappointing to see someone who claims to be a fellow Christian being so uncharitable on something as silly as a blog. It seems the ones who are most concerned with judging others (especially in a forum such as this one) are the ones who need to explore their own relationship with Christ–and what it means for interacting with other people–the most.

  9. Tenley was one of my favorites on the show. She was not nasty to anyone, just a sweet beautiful person. I think she is sweet.

  10. I think Tenley rocks, such a beautiful girl. If you don’t like her then stop wasting your time on her.