The Expert Parent on back to school jitters
Books that can helpSam and Gram and the First Day of School
By Diane L. Blomberg For ages 4-6 This book takes children on an hour-by-hour tour through a typical first day of school (kindergarten or first grade) so they'll know just what to expect, the people they are likely to meet, and the fun in store. Written by a national expert in communications and human relations, it also has two special sections: "Things to Do" -- a list of practical things you can do to help a child prepare for school, and "Things to Talk About" -- a list of questions to get your child thinking and talking about her feelings.I Don't Want to Go Back to School
By Marisabina Russo For ages 5-8 This picture book dramatizes a child's panic about going back to school after summer vacation. What if the bus driver misses Ben's stop on the way home? What if no one remembers Ben at school? What if the teacher asks him a really hard question, and he doesn't know the answer? Ben's older sister adds to his fears by telling him that his teacher is mean. Of course, things turn out well, but Ben's universal worries and questions about school will reassure young readers.Wemberly Worried
By Kevin Henkes For ages 4-8 Wemberly worried about everything. Then it was time for school to start and Wemberly worried even more. "What if no one else has spots? What if no one else wears stripes? What if no one else brings a doll? What if the teacher is mean?" Henkes, the author of Lilly's Purple Plastic Purse, speaks directly to the hearts of worriers everywhere in this universal story about dealing with anxiety, and smoothing school transitions. (Parents will enjoy Wemberly's roller-blading grandma wearing a T-shirt that says "Go with the flow.")First Day Jitters
By Julie Danneberg For ages 5-8 Every child who has moved to a new school or is reluctant to start the school year can relate to this story with a surprise ending. When the alarm rings on back-to-school morning, Sarah Jane Hartwell doesn't want to get out of bed. "I'm not going. I don't know anybody and it will be hard..." she wails. Finally, Mr. Hartwell orders her down to breakfast, puts her in the car and drops her off at school. Children love the final revelation that Sarah Jane is not a student, but the teacher.Judy Moody
By Megan McDonald For ages 6-10 The first day of third grade puts Judy Moody in a mad-face mood. She just knows everyone will come back from summer vacation with T-shirts proclaiming their adventures at "Disney World" or "Jamestown: Home of Pocahontas." All Judy has is a plain old no-words T-shirt. She'll have to go to a new classroom, with a new desk, and she won't have an armadillo sticker with her name on it like she did last year. And knowing her luck, she'll end up sitting next to Frank, the boy who eats paste. Luckily, bad moods never last and before long Judy's day -- and year -- begin to look brighter.Coping with Changing Schools
By Sandra Lee Smith For ages 12 and up For older children starting a new school, these fictional scenarios may help calm the nerves by illustrating situations and emotions a teenager might experience. Each is followed by analysis, which generally concludes that a positive attitude makes the transition smoother.