Guys: 10 Tips to Be Better in Bed

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Spoil her. Every girl secretly, or not so secretly, wants to be pampered and treated like a princess. "Surprise her with a long massage and a night full of her favorite things. Rent her favorite video and order in her favorite meal," says Jessica of St. Paul, Minnesota.

Go dancing. If you're not the best dancer, sway closely in the privacy of your own home. "I'm terrified of the dance floor but when he puts his hands on my hips, it's not about moving my feet. It's about moving as one," declares Alexa of Nashville, Tennessee.

Apply a little cologne. Remember, a little can go a long way. "The just-out-of-the-shower smell or a small spray on your neck will drive her wild. I am particularly partial to Acqua di Gio and Polo Sport," advises Clare of Rockaway, New York.

Visit a lingerie store. Women want to wear what they know you like. "Take the time to find out what she likes too. It's hard to feel sexy if you're trying to live up to Playboy Bunny standards," recommends Elizabeth of Chicago.

Help her fantasize. Initiate pillow talk with a little storytelling. "If your girl is shy, tell her about some of your tamer fantasies. Then ask sexy questions to get her more comfortable," divulges Yelena of New Milford, New Jersey.