Sexual Fantasies

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Learn to Let Loose

Would you like to let loose -- but you just don't know how? You're not alone. A lot of women feel like it's not proper, and many others worry that their hubbies will be shocked or amused by their newfound naughtiness. Your best bet is to start slow, and do things that really thrill you (not what you think you're supposed to do). Remember, sex is supposed to be fun, and the more you play with it, the more alluring new frisky facets you'll find in yourself.

Try these tips to let out your inner vixen:

  1. Get to know yourself. Your self. Yes, we're talking about masturbation: Peaking when you're alone will keep you feeling sexy when he's around.
  2. Share the wealth -- of knowledge. Pay attention to what you do to yourself, and gently teach your man the same techniques. Communicate in a positive way: instead of "Quit rubbing like that, I'm not a chalkboard!" try "I love it when you stroke me this way."
  3. Relax. Experts note that we women tend to hold our breaths when things get hot and heavy. Do some deep-breathing as you get more and more turned on, and you'll reach new levels of pleasure.
  4. Talk dirty. You don't have to be wild and wicked off the bat -- start by letting yourself make more noise, moaning and sighing out loud. Then say "that feels good" when it does. Ask him for more feedback, too. Then name the things that feel good. Keep going...
  5. See yourself differently. As you go through your day -- and especially as you're getting hot-and-heavy -- secretly visualize yourself as Lara Croft or Samantha from Sex and the City. This will help you shake your self-proscribed role and lower your inhibitions.
  6. Share a book of sex tips with your mate. Grab a copy of the good old Joy of Sex, or explore other options by authors like Olivia St. Clare or Lisa Sussman. Mark things that seem interesting with pink Post-its -- then leave it on his night table with a pack of blue Post-its, for him to do the same. Discuss your choices and try some of them out together.
  7. Wear sexy underwear -- all the time, not just when you're planning a special night. Your secret dainty underthings will make you feel desirable all day, and remind you that you're a wild woman, in addition to all those other roles in your daily life.
  8. Look at yourself naked. Stop getting mad at the parts you don't like -- concentrate on the beautiful bits of you, and celebrate them. Say, "My curves are sexy. My skin is soft. My shoulders just beg to be nibbled on." Keep up the encouragement, and learn to listen to your kind words. The result? A stronger, more confident, and therefore sexier self.
  9. Let there be light. Ah-ah-ah! Don't you dare turn off that light before you make love. Instead, throw a red scarf over the lampshade to create a soft glow. Now, keep your eyes open and watch your bodies entwine together. See how much pleasure he gets from your touch. Oh -- you really are a vixen!
  10. Dance, touch, talk. Sex isn't just about what you do in bed. It's about communication and sensuality throughout your day. Taking a spicy salsa-dance class can get you and your man hot and bothered, or just make you laugh at yourselves and have fun. Touching him with affection can boost your tactile titillation. All that stuff will make your nighttime cuddles all the more romantic -- and randy.

Continued on page 4:  Gals Share Secrets

 

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