Layoff-Proof Your Life

When He's the One Laid Off

Living with an out-of-work husband isn't easy. But here's how you can help:

• Be his best cheerleader. Criticism will only undermine your husband's self-confidence.
• Lend a hand. Offer to revise his resume, help him network with his contacts or yours or map out a game plan for the next few months.
• Connect often. Bonnie Eaker Weil, Ph.D., a couples counselor based in New York City, recommends taking 10 minutes a day to discuss what's on your minds. Ask him what he needs from you.
• Show your affection. Touching, kisses and words of love are especially important in times of crisis.
• Call in the pros. If your husband shows signs of depression, encourage him to see a therapist, either alone or with you.